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World Breastfeeding Week 2026 "Breastfeeding for a Sustainable Start in Life: Strengthen What Works." Every year, World Breastfeeding Week reminds us of the importance of breastfeeding and the role it plays in giving babies the healthiest possible start in life. This year's theme, "Breastfeeding for a Sustainable Start in Life: Strengthen What Works," calls on families, communities, workplaces, and healthcare professionals, to strengthen the support systems that help mothers

Every family has a story. The question is not whether our stories are perfect, but whether love, healing, and hope have a place at the table. In the US, National Parents Day is celebrated annually on 26th July. Globally, celebrating Parents Day is often filled with photos of smiling families, heartfelt tributes, and messages of gratitude. These celebrations are meaningful, and many parents deserve to be honoured for their love and sacrifice. But for some, this day feels diffe

When O first found out about the pregnancy, his reaction was not simple. “At first I was surprised,” he shares. “Then I started to think about our financial capacity, my partner’s physical condition, and whether we were ready or not.” His thoughts moved quickly. To responsibility, to practical concerns, to what the future might look like. But his partner’s response was different. “She loves babies,” he says. “She also works in a helping profession. So she wanted to keep, and

Observing World Population Day 2026: 11 July Every year, World Population Day brings conversations about declining birth rates, ageing populations, and the future of our society. In Singapore, these discussions are becoming increasingly familiar. We read about our record-low fertility rate in 2025, an ageing population, and the challenges of sustaining future generations. These are important conversations. 2025's World Population Day theme, "Empowering young people to create

Talking to someone after an abortion can help you process your feelings. Learn who to talk to, what to say and where to find support.

As Father's Day approaches, I find myself reflecting on my own father. As I've grown older, I've come to realise that no parent is perfect, and no father gets everything right. But one thing I have never doubted is his love. Looking back, I realise how blessed my childhood was because of the many experiences my parents gave me, the opportunities they created, and the gifts they delighted in sharing. They were expressions of a love that wanted their children to have more than

Mental health during an unplanned pregnancy can be challenging. Discover coping strategies, emotional support and helpful resources.

When you first meet Polly, there is a lightness about her. She is warm, jovial, and easy to speak to. Something you might not expect, given the weight of the work she has carried for over twenty years. As a volunteer befriender with aLife, she has walked alongside women facing unplanned pregnancies in Singapore, many of whom were navigating fear, uncertainty, and deeply personal decisions. And yet, she stayed. Polly Ng, aLife's (SUPeRF) long service award winner. How It Began

In the work of supporting women through an unplanned pregnancy, creating a safe space is often spoken about. But in reality, it is not something perfect or scripted. “It is to be willing to listen to them,” Vanessa shares, “even if imperfectly we are. It is to be human to others.” Sometimes, that looks like continuing a conversation through a text message. Sometimes, it is a phone call. Sometimes, it is simply trying again, gently, without judgement. “It’s just a start,” she

Singapore is beginning to talk more openly about mental health, and that matters. The Institute of Mental Health (IMH) recently announced its third nationwide Singapore Mental Health Study (SMHS), which will explore the state of mental health in Singapore following the Covid-19 pandemic. For the first time, the study will include teens aged 15 to 17 to examine struggles such as anxiety, depression, eating disorders, resilience, sense of belonging, and social support. The find

Explore unplanned pregnancy options, including parenting, adoption and abortion, with clear information and support to help guide your decision.

Teen pregnancy in Singapore is often discussed in statistics, cautionary conversations, or whispers behind closed doors. But behind every number is a real person, a young woman, navigating fear, uncertainty, judgement, and life-changing decisions. According to Singapore's 2024 Report on Registration of Births and Deaths, 244 babies were born to mothers aged 19 and below, a 7% increase from the year before. While the numbers remain relatively small, the rise reminds us of some

At 21, with school, work, friendships, late night hangouts, and the freedom to explore, life is often just beginning. For Reiko, everything shifted when she found out she was pregnant. "I was still in school... less than a year into university," she shared. "I didn't know how to tell my parents." In a moment that felt overwhelming and uncertain, she asked her boyfriend, now her husband, to break the news to her parents while she was at work. At that time, studying in universi

"I'm not ready." For many facing an unplanned pregnancy, this may be one of the first and most honest thoughts that comes. It can feel heavy, frightening, and even final. Especially in a society like Singapore, where life often follows a timeline, education, career, marriage, then children, feeling "not ready" can feel like something is wrong. But what if it isn't? What if feeling not ready is not a sign of failure, but a sign that you are taking this seriously? When Fear Fee

When facing an unplanned pregnancy, it is natural to feel pressure to "figure everything out" quickly. Questions may come all at once: "What should I do next?" "Am I ready?" "What will happen to my future?" In a society like Singapore, where life is often carefully planned and structured, it can feel like everything depends on making the "right" decision. But in the middle of all these thoughts, one thing matters more than having a perfect plan. Feeling emotionally safe. The

Learn how to tell your partner about an unplanned pregnancy with confidence, including what to say, how to prepare and where to find support.

In Singapore's fast-paced, achievement-driven culture, life is often expected to follow a clear path — education, career, stability, then family. So when an unplanned pregnancy happens, it can feel like everything has suddenly gone off track. Alongside the shock and uncertainty, many women carry quietly thoughts like: "What will everyone think?" "Did I mess up my future?" "Does this mean I've failed?" These thoughts can feel overwhelming. But they do not define you. Even whe