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Here's where you can ask us anything from pregnancy tips to practical advice on pregnancy, government aid, resources and more. Whether you're a first-time mum or facing an unplanned pregnancy, we'll do our best to help you.
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Feeling Good
Why Emotional Safety Matters More Than Perfect Plans
When facing an unplanned pregnancy, it is natural to feel pressure to "figure everything out" quickly. Questions may come all at once: "What should I do next?" "Am I ready?" "What will happen to my future?" In a society like Singapore, where life is often carefully planned and structured, it can feel like everything depends on making the "right" decision. But in the middle of all these thoughts, one thing matters more than having a perfect plan. Feeling emotionally safe. The
Charmaine Kek
6 days ago3 min read
Managing Parental Stress: Finding Strength in the Everyday
Parenting is one of life's greatest joys, and one of its greatest responsibilities. In Singapore's fast-paced environment, many parents find themselves stretched between work demands, children's academic pressures, caregiving for elderly parents, and financial responsibilities. The weight can feel heavy, even for the most devoted mothers and fathers. The reality is, many parents love their children deeply, but they quietly struggle with exhaustion, guilt, and are overwhelmed.
Charmaine Kek
Mar 24 min read
Balancing Work and Family Life in Singapore: Choosing What Truly Matters
In Singapore's fast-paced and achievement-driven society, many of us are constantly juggling responsibilities such as deadlines, financial commitments, caregiving, household duties, and expectations from every direction. For parents, especially those raising young children or navigating an unplanned pregnancy, the tension between work and family can feel overwhelming. Quietly we ask: "Can I really do both?" "Will I fall behind in my career?" "Is it selfish to prioritise famil
Charmaine Kek
Feb 233 min read
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Baby Baby
TOPIC:
Baby Baby
Why Emotional Safety Matters More Than Perfect Plans
When facing an unplanned pregnancy, it is natural to feel pressure to "figure everything out" quickly. Questions may come all at once: "What should I do next?" "Am I ready?" "What will happen to my future?" In a society like Singapore, where life is often carefully planned and structured, it can feel like everything depends on making the "right" decision. But in the middle of all these thoughts, one thing matters more than having a perfect plan. Feeling emotionally safe. The
Charmaine Kek
6 days ago3 min read
When Life Does Not Go To Plan, You Are Still Worthy
In Singapore's fast-paced, achievement-driven culture, life is often expected to follow a clear path — education, career, stability, then family. So when an unplanned pregnancy happens, it can feel like everything has suddenly gone off track. Alongside the shock and uncertainty, many women carry quietly thoughts like: "What will everyone think?" "Did I mess up my future?" "Does this mean I've failed?" These thoughts can feel overwhelming. But they do not define you. Even whe
Charmaine Kek
Apr 153 min read
"We're Not on the Same Page" When Your Partner Feels Differently About the Pregnancy
An unplanned pregnancy can be overwhelming, and many women gather the courage to tell their partner hoping for comfort, reassurance, or clarity. But sometimes, the response they receive is not what they expected. Instead of support, there may be silence . Instead of calm, there may be panic . Instead of reassurance, there may be pressure or conflict . When this happens, it can feel incredibly lonely. When Reactions Don't Match It is common for couples to react differently to
Charmaine Kek
Apr 83 min read
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Goodbye Baby
Abortion Pill Reversal: What Every Woman Deserves to Know
Unplanned pregnancies can bring overwhelming emotions such as fear, confusion, pressure, and urgency. In such situations, decisions are often made quickly, sometimes without the space to fully process what one truly wants. For some women who choose a medical abortion, regret sets in soon after taking the first pill. This experience is more common than many realise, yet few know that there may be a very narrow window of time to seek medical advice, and treatment, to continue
Charmaine Kek
Mar 244 min read
Understanding Abortion Law in Singapore (Termination of Pregnancy - TOP)
Facing an unplanned or difficult pregnancy can feel overwhelming. You may be dealing with fear, confusion, or pressure from different directions, and at the same time trying to understand what your options are. Having clear information can help you make decisions with greater confidence and less uncertainty. In Singapore, abortion is governed by the Termination of Pregnancy (TOP) Act , where there are specific rules and procedures in place. This article explains the legal fra
Charmaine Kek
Feb 274 min read
Understanding Post Abortion Syndrome
It is normal and common for feelings of sadness and guilt to be felt amongst some individuals following an abortion. However, when these feelings persist long-term to the extent that it affects one's day to day lives , it could be a sign that they are experiencing Post Abortion Syndrome (PAS) . Post Abortion Syndrome (PAS) is defined as the constellation of symptoms similar to Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) , which are rumored to happen after a person has experienced
Nathanielle Phang
Feb 202 min read
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Get Help
Why Emotional Safety Matters More Than Perfect Plans
When facing an unplanned pregnancy, it is natural to feel pressure to "figure everything out" quickly. Questions may come all at once: "What should I do next?" "Am I ready?" "What will happen to my future?" In a society like Singapore, where life is often carefully planned and structured, it can feel like everything depends on making the "right" decision. But in the middle of all these thoughts, one thing matters more than having a perfect plan. Feeling emotionally safe. The
Charmaine Kek
6 days ago3 min read
When Life Does Not Go To Plan, You Are Still Worthy
In Singapore's fast-paced, achievement-driven culture, life is often expected to follow a clear path — education, career, stability, then family. So when an unplanned pregnancy happens, it can feel like everything has suddenly gone off track. Alongside the shock and uncertainty, many women carry quietly thoughts like: "What will everyone think?" "Did I mess up my future?" "Does this mean I've failed?" These thoughts can feel overwhelming. But they do not define you. Even whe
Charmaine Kek
Apr 153 min read
"We're Not on the Same Page" When Your Partner Feels Differently About the Pregnancy
An unplanned pregnancy can be overwhelming, and many women gather the courage to tell their partner hoping for comfort, reassurance, or clarity. But sometimes, the response they receive is not what they expected. Instead of support, there may be silence . Instead of calm, there may be panic . Instead of reassurance, there may be pressure or conflict . When this happens, it can feel incredibly lonely. When Reactions Don't Match It is common for couples to react differently to
Charmaine Kek
Apr 83 min read
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