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  • 3 short stories on abortion: Part 2

    Read Part 1 Facing my abortion alone. A weight (literally) lifted off me.  Wednesday, 2.45am  My eyelids had grown heavy from reading articles, resources, hospitals…The list goes on and as I lay on my bed, staring at the blank ceiling above me, I made my decision. Friday, 11.30am I boarded the bus On the way, I look out the window  You’re on Your Own, Kid  by   Taylor Swift   resonates in my ear 12.10pm I arrive and cautiously step through the doors My hands are slick in sweat, trembling I look around at the women around me with their partners I suspect I’m the youngest here 12.15pm  The receptionist prompts me for my identification card She was casual, nice.  But all I could think was “How harshly is she judging me?’ 12.30pm  I had my consultation with the gynae He was nice and re-confirmed my pregnancy I told him what I had decided.  12.45pm   I was brought into a cold, sterile room.   The clinic nurse offers me a blanket I was made to watch a counselling video about the abortion process  It made me sad and I tried hard not to think about it. 1.20pm  Before I knew it, the procedure was over. It was done.  As I step back into the world outside, a weight had been lifted. In my solitude, I felt a mix of emotions.  Relief washed over me — I had made a choice, and now I could move forward. Yet, that relief was tinged with sadness, a bittersweet acknowledgment of what I had left behind and the possibilities I had surrendered. The emptiness lingered on, like a hollow echo in my chest. It was a reminder of the gravity of my decision, a void that whispered of potential and loss. I glanced at the bustling streets around me, life continuing in its vibrant chaos, and I wondered how many others were also carrying their own hidden burdens. Read Part 3 If you or anyone you know is going through an unexpected pregnancy, please don't hesitate to reach out to us at 9183 4483 . Remember that you're not alone.

  • POV: Father of an unexpected pregnancy wants DNA test

    When I first found out that my girlfriend was pregnant, I immediately weighed my options. I was in dilemma after dilemma of whether or not to stay with her, whether or not to convince her to terminate the pregnancy and abort the child. We fought countless arguments and were at a complete impasse. Ultimately, I decided that, as a good partner, I couldn’t leave her to navigate this alone. We were in this boat together… until…   When I shared my situation to one of my bros, he casually asked, “Are you even sure the baby is yours?” That question hit me hard. I had never considered the possibility that I might not be the father. What if she had cheated on me? If that were the case, why should I be stressing over this? I could walk away, and the pregnancy would no longer be my concern. If you’re the girl in this situation and you’re wondering why your boyfriend might want a DNA test, hear me out. Being uncertain about the paternity of the baby could stem from various reasons and is often a common point brought up in the midst of an unexpected pregnancy. Your boyfriend is likely experiencing anxiety about the situation, wondering if he is ready for parenthood. He might also be questioning the trust between you and him, afraid that starting a family in bad faith could lead to further complications down the line.  Having open communication Having open communication during this challenging time is crucial for both partners. It allows you to express your feelings, fears, and expectations honestly, creating a foundation of trust that is essential for navigating the complexities of an unexpected pregnancy. Start by setting aside time to talk without distractions—find a quiet place where you can both feel comfortable. Approach the conversation with empathy and a willingness to listen; ask open-ended questions to encourage dialogue. Share your thoughts and feelings about the pregnancy and be honest about any doubts or concerns you both have. Trust that your partner is able and willing to understand your worries. Of course, it’s important to validate each other’s emotions, even if they differ. Establishing a safe space for discussion can help clarify misunderstandings, strengthen your bond, and ultimately guide both of you in making informed decisions about the future. How the DNA test works You might be concerned about the complexities of a DNA test. In reality however, getting it done is straightforward and quick! Non-invasive prenatal paternity (NIPP) This noninvasive test is the most accurate way to establish paternity during pregnancy. It involves taking a blood sample from the alleged father and the mother to conduct a fetal cell analysis. You can also use this test   after the baby is born with just a cheek swab.  Essentially, all you need to do is get a blood sample taken! In navigating the challenges of an unexpected pregnancy, open communication and understanding are essential for both partners. While the request for a DNA test can bring up feelings of doubt and insecurity, it’s important to approach the situation with empathy and clarity. By discussing fears, expectations and the process of testing, you can build a stronger foundation for your relationship and make informed decisions together. Remember, facing this journey as a united front can help you both grow regardless of the outcome. If someone you know is going through an unexpected pregnancy, please don't hesitate to reach out to us at 9183 4483 . Remember that you're not alone.

  • Manage Newborn Expenses Like a Pro (Part 1)

    Welcoming a new baby is an incredible experience, but the reality of raising a child on a budget is something many new parents face head-on. Whether you're a single mum or simply navigating new parenthood on your own terms, taking control of finances can feel overwhelming. Fear not! With a smart approach to budgeting, you can ensure your baby has everything they need without emptying your wallet.  1. Understanding Your New Budget When a new baby arrives, your budget and expenses need a reset. Start by jotting down all essential monthly expenses such as rent, groceries, utilities and then add the “baby must-haves” such as diapers, formula and clothing.  Consider creating a simple spreadsheet or using a budgeting app which will give you a clear view of where your money is going and help you adjust when necessary.  Diapers Around $2.16 daily for newborns, which increases to $3.30 as your baby grows Formula Milk $50 per tin, with most babies needing three tins a month at six months old Healthcare Pediatrician visits are crucial, costing around $120 each. With approximately 8 visits during infancy, the bills add up Figures taken from Seedly . 2. Prioritise Essentials Over Wants Before adding that designer stroller to your cart, ask yourself: “Is this something we really need?” Yes, baby stores are full of adorable items, but babies actually need only a few basics. Tip : Diapers and Wipes: Keep plenty on hand. You’ll go through about 4–6 diapers per day. 3. Shop Smart with Second Hand Options  You don’t have to pay top dollar for baby essentials. Shop savvy by looking for sales, using coupons and exploring second-hand options. Many pre-loved items like strollers and playpens can be available for a fraction of the original price. Tip : Join parenting groups online where you can find reusable second-hand items from other parents. 4. Create a Baby Fund A baby fund can be a lifesaver especially when unexpected expenses arise. Set aside a little money each month and soon those small sums will add up to a sizable pool which will come in handy in an emergency or when your bundle of joy grows each day and you need larger-sized clothing, new toys and a larger variety of food to suit baby's needs.  Tip : Start with manageable goals like saving $20 a week. By the end of the year, that’s over $1,000 in savings! 5. Embrace DIY Baby Solutions Sometimes the best solutions don’t have to come from a store! DIY is a great way to cut costs and add a personal touch to baby items. For some healthy homemade baby food without the costs of paying for expensive jars of baby food, you can also easily blend fruits and vegetables at home. Make Your Own Baby Wipes: Grab some paper towels, baby soap and water for a cost-effective DIY solution that's easy to make. 6. Tap into Community Resources Libraries, for instance, often offer free classes for new parents and there are many support groups where you can find baby supplies for free or at a fraction of the cost.  Utilising these community resources is like having a support squad that can help you lighten your financial load, so you can focus on enjoying time with your baby. Tip : Look into parenting groups that might offer free or discounted baby supplies, classes and even babysitting services. 7. Keep Track and Adjust Regularly Babies grow fast, and their needs change just as quickly. Bought too many onesies in a single size only to have your baby outgrow them in a month? No worries. Set aside time every month to review your baby budget and adjust as necessary. Check out Part 2 of Manage Newborn Expenses Like A Pro here. *Information in this article is not to be treated as medical or financial advice. All budget figures taken from Seedly .

  • Coffee and Pregnancy: What’s the Deal?

    For many moms-to-be, coffee is more than just a drink. It’s a lifestyle staple. As coffee contains caffeine, a powerful stimulant for the body, the question many pregnant mums may ask is , “Will caffeine harm my baby? Do I have to give up my morning brew?” Caffeine increases your heart rate and boosts energy levels. It can cross the placenta and affect the fetus. Over the years, people have been concerned about whether it may affect fetal brain development. Earlier studies have shown that increased coffee consumption during pregnancy is associated with the child having neurodevelopmental difficulties. These may include difficulties with language, motor skills, attention, hyperactivity and impulsive behavior. Since developing babies aren’t able to process caffeine as efficiently as adults, high amounts may lead to these issues. However, recent research which looked at 58,694 Norwegian mothers over 2 decades has found no causal link between drinking coffee during pregnancy and the child’s neurodevelopmental difficulties. That means it is safe to keep drinking coffee.  According to international guidelines, low to moderate consumption is safe for the mother and developing baby. For most people, that means sticking to below 200mg of caffeine per day – which is roughly equivalent to one 12-ounce cup of coffee. What Does 200 Milligrams Look Like? A typical 8-ounce cup of brewed coffee contains about  95 milligrams of caffeine , while a 12-ounce cup contains around  140 milligrams . So, as long as you stick to around 12 ounces or less per day, you are good to go. But caffeine isn’t just in coffee. If you drink tea, nibble on chocolate, or gulp down a soda drink, you are consuming caffeine, too. A 12-ounce can of soda has about  35 milligrams of caffeine , and a cup of black tea contains roughly  47 milligrams . If you love energy drinks, you might want to be extra careful—some can contain  200 milligrams or more per serving . The Perks of Coffee During Pregnancy For many women, a daily coffee break is good for their mental wellness. Coffee can bring a sense of calm and normalcy, especially during a time when pregnancy is causing so many changes in the body. Exhaustion is common especially in the later part of pregnancy. A cup of coffee can be of help when you are battling fatigue or trying to stay focused during your daily routine. Tips for Enjoying Coffee Safely While moderate coffee intake is safe, there are a few tips you can keep in mind to ensure you’re staying on track with your caffeine consumption: Chart Your Caffeine Intake : Keep an eye on all sources of caffeine, not just your coffee. Make a note of teas, chocolate, and sodas you might be consuming throughout the day.  Try Decaffeinated coffee : If you’re someone who loves the ritual of coffee but wants to lower your caffeine intake, decaffeinated coffee is a great option Change to alternatives : You can swap your coffee for an alternative like herbal teas, a smoothie, or a caffeine-free latte. Sip Smart, Stay Relaxed Pregnancy is a time full of changes, but you do not have to give up coffee completely. A daily cup of coffee is more than just a caffeine boost—it is a moment of “me time,” a ritual that brings joy. As long as you keep it to  one or two cups a day , you can enjoy your brew without guilt.

  • Healthy Lifestyle Habits for Busy Mums

    Being a mum is a full-time job and it’s easy to put your personal needs on the back burner. But remember that taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of the family. Start Your Day With A Breakfast Boost Breakfast is the fuel that kickstarts your hectic day. Think of oatmeal topped with fruit or scrambled eggs with veggies. Both options provide the nutrients you need without adding too much sugar to your diet. Stay Active With Fun Family Activities You don’t need a gym membership to stay fit. Turn family time into fun workout time! Go for bike rides, play tag in the park or dance around the living room. These activities keep you moving and make exercise feel less like a chore. Plus, your kids will love it! Drink Up & Stay Hydrated Drinking more fluids especially water helps keep you hydrated throughout the day. Carry a water bottle wherever you go and set reminders on your phone to drink water throughout the day. Adding a slice of lemon or cucumber can make water extra refreshing. Snack The Smart Way When the hunger pangs hit, it’s tempting to grab chips or candy. Instead, stock up on healthy snacks. Think yogurt, nuts or fresh fruit. These snacks not only satisfy your cravings but also provide your body with energy and nutrients. Prioritise Sleep (Zzzz) Sleep is essential, but it’s often the first thing we skip when we have a dozen things to do at the same time. Think of rest like charging your phone; without it, you won't function right. Establish a bedtime routine, so that you can wind down after a long day. Aim for 7-8 hours of quality sleep. If it’s hard to settle down, try reading a book or listening to calming music. Connect With Your Community Make time to meet with friends, join a book club or simply connect with other mums. Sharing experiences can do wonders for your mental well-being. Take a Moment for Yourself (Or Two) In the chaos of daily life, it’s crucial to take a breather. Try mindfulness techniques like deep breathing or meditation. Just a few minutes of quiet time can clear your head and make you feel refreshed. Think of it as pressing a reset button when you're stressed out. Set Small Goals Living a healthy lifestyle doesn’t have to be complicated. Remember, it’s all about making small, manageable changes that fit into your busy schedule. Whether it’s cooking a healthy meal, bonding over family activities or simply taking a moment for yourself, a small change can go a long way. Viva busy mums! *Tips are solely the writer's opinion and in no way represent a medical point of view. If you have special dietary needs, please consult your doctor before following our tips.

  • The Love of A Mother: Growing With Each Passing Day

    Love is often described as unconditional, selfless, self-sacrificial or even tough, painful and unreciprocated. Society expects a mother, especially a new one, to immediately shower her new born child with all the love a human can possibly feel and show. No one stops to consider the hours prior to this joyous moment. The pain and emotional turmoil the woman has endured. "Mummy, I'm completely dependent on you!" Seconds after my first daughter was born, she was placed gently on my chest. My first thought was…wow she’s purple! Next, she’s slimy!  I can laugh about it now, after 31 years. But it was a scary moment.  In the days that followed, my hormone levels were like a roller coaster, I was exhausted from sleep deprivation and to top it off, the perpetual feeling of being a milk dispenser. It was hardly the environment for any affectionate feelings.  And yet…  When I cuddled my baby each time she cried from hunger, colic, wet or soiled diapers, loneliness or just boredom, my heart melted. I looked into her eyes and it said, “Mummy, I’m completely dependent on you”. I can’t help but love this little human totally. I want to protect, guide and teach her unconditionally, selflessly. I want to sacrifice for her… Click here for Part 2.

  • The Love of A Mother: Growing With Each Passing Day Part 2

    The years pass, and that little “nugget’ has grown, along with two other munchkins. The roller coaster ride was now not just hormonal, but a lesson for all. We had numerous moments of joy, laughter and crazy banter. There were also times of frustration, anger, school stress, scolding, and nagging.  "We are the very first teachers in our children's lives." The lesson I’ve learnt is that we as parents want what’s best for our children. The love we show or sometimes don’t show, begins from that first day. We all want to love our kids to bits. But we have a duty. A duty to mold, to teach, to discipline and to stand by them no matter what. Throughout their lives. We, the parents, are after all the very first teachers in our children’s lives. They depend on us completely in the beginning and we have the choice to start that process in providing them the tools to become not just good but great human beings.  "Tough love is at times necessary and beneficial." The love we have for them is not and should not be quantified. We know how much we love them, but we need to know how much to show or give at different times. Tough love, we sometimes hear about, is at times necessary and beneficial. It teaches resilience, problem-solving and initiative.  Yes it would be painful and hurtful to us when our children rebel and do the opposite of what we had hoped. In reality they would at some point. That would be the test of how much we will support and stand by them. We have to decide when to tell them they are wrong.   So how much do we love our children? The answer is, with every cell of our being.  I learnt long ago from a wise counselor, that we need to “be firm, but kind”. I applied this theory whenever possible. Even towards other children in my profession. And I must say it works wonders! However, the most important ingredient has to be genuine love. Children are awfully sensitive and they’ll know instantly if you’re faking it… Enjoy your children for who they are. Each one a unique star who makes up the universe.

  • Looking For A Job After Your First Baby?

    Congratulations on the arrival of your little one! Becoming a parent is a life-changing experience and it's natural to feel a mix of emotions as you navigate this new chapter in life. If like many new mums, you're looking to return to the workforce in Singapore after your first baby, here are some practical tips and suggestions for you to consider in your job search. Prioritising Your Needs As you start your job search, it's important to take a step back and reflect on your priorities. What's the most important to you? Is it work-life balance? A flexible schedules or being able to work remotely or part-time? Many employers in Singapore are becoming more open to flexible work arrangements such as remote work, flexible hours, or part-time schedules. Revamping Your Resume Take the time to update your resume, highlighting your skills and experiences that are relevant to the roles you're applying for. Include any volunteer work or freelance projects you've undertaken during your pregnancy period. Leveraging On Your Network Reach out to your professional network including former colleagues, industry contacts and even other parents in your community. They may be aware of job opportunities that align with your needs. Preparing for Interviews Be ready to discuss how you can balance your professional responsibilities with your family commitments. Highlight your time-management skills and your ability to work efficiently. Remember that all mothers are excellent multi-taskers. If you're concerned about how your new parental status may affect your job prospects, be proactive in addressing these concerns during the interview process. Emphasise your commitment to the role and your ability to contribute to the company's success. Returning to the workforce will definitely be a challenge now that you have a child to take care of too, but take heart, the right opportunity is out there waiting for you!

  • Help! I'm pregnant! What are my rights?

    A sudden unexpected pregnancy can be extremely overwhelming, but knowing your rights during these times can help you make the right decisions. In Singapore, several laws and resources support women facing this life-changing situation. Understanding Your Rights In Singapore, expectant parents are protected by several laws. It’s important to know that you have rights under the Employment Act including maternity leave and protection against discrimination. If you're employed, you have the right to maternity leave if you meet specific criteria. This enables you to take time off to prepare for the baby's arrival and to recuperate afterward, easing the pressures of both work and parenthood. Maternity Leave and Benefits Maternity benefits can be a lifeline. If you've been working for at least three months and meet other requirements, you’re entitled to up to 16 weeks of paid maternity leave. This time is invaluable as you can focus on your health and your child's well-being without worrying about job security. Also, there’s the Baby Bonus Scheme and Child Development Account (CDA) that the government funds to help with expenses related to your baby’s growth and education. Options for Unplanned Pregnancy An unplanned pregnancy often involves tough decisions. You may be wondering, “What are my options?” In Singapore, there are three main paths: parenting, adoption, or termination of pregnancy. Each choice comes with legal rights and responsibilities. If you decide to parent, you can seek government assistance through programmes that support new parents. Finding community groups or networks can also provide additional emotional support. Adoption enables your baby to enjoy the love and care of a family with a loving family while you can move forward with your life. Speak to licensed adoption agencies that can guide you through this journey. If you choose to terminate the pregnancy, the law in Singapore allows for safe and legal abortion procedures under specific conditions. Consult a qualified doctor to discuss your options, potential risks, and aftercare. Emotional support services are also available to help you through this difficult decision. Accessibility to Healthcare Services Access to healthcare services is a fundamental right. In Singapore, numerous public clinics provide reproductive health services, including counselling and medical care related to pregnancy. It’s crucial to reach out to healthcare professionals who can offer you information tailored to your situation. Importance of Counselling and Support Navigating an unplanned pregnancy can be emotionally taxing. Many organisations provide free or low-cost counselling, ensuring that you have someone who can support you, letting you talk through your feelings and receive guidance without breaking the bank. This can make the journey ahead feel less daunting. Navigating an unplanned pregnancy can be emotionally taxing. Many organisations provide free or low-cost counselling, ensuring that you have someone who can support you, letting you talk through your feelings and receive guidance without breaking the bank. This can make the journey ahead feel less daunting.

  • What to Eat When You’re Sick During Pregnancy

    Pregnancy is a beautiful and transformative experience, but it can also come with its fair share of challenges including the dreaded morning sickness. When the nausea strikes, it's essential to find nourishing and comforting food that can help you feel better and support your growing baby. Ginger: A well-known natural remedy for nausea, making it an excellent choice for pregnant women experiencing morning sickness. It can be consumed in various forms such as ginger tea, ginger ale, or even ginger chews. The active compounds in ginger, known as gingerols, have been shown to help reduce the severity of morning sickness and provide relief. Bland and Easy-to-Digest Foods : Crackers: Saltine crackers or whole-grain crackers can help settle your stomach and provide a gentle source of carbohydrates. Toast: Plain, white toast or whole-grain toast can be a comforting and easy-to-digest option. Bananas: Bananas are a great source of potassium, which can help replace electrolytes lost through vomiting. Rice: Plain, white rice is a gentle and soothing option that can be easily digested. Hydration is key when you're experiencing morning sickness as it can lead to dehydration. Aim to drink small, frequent sips of water, herbal tea, or electrolyte-rich beverages like coconut water or sports drinks. Avoid sugary or carbonated drinks, as they may further upset your stomach. Navigating morning sickness during pregnancy can be challenging, but by incorporating the right foods into your diet, you can help alleviate your symptoms and still nourish both you and your growing baby.

  • Importance of Iron During Pregnancy

    She had been warned that fatigue would increase as her pregnancy progressed. But she felt more exhausted and tired than usual. M, 30, a first-time mum was at 28 weeks of pregnancy. Her short evening walk after dinner left her breathless with her heart pumping rapidly. She also felt a little dizzy. Her husband was very concerned and brought her for a consultation. She looked pale and her resting heart rate was slightly elevated at 100 beats per minute. Ultrasound examination of her foetus was normal. Blood tests, however, showed that she was anemic with a low iron reserve. M was suffering from iron-deficiency anemia, a common condition during pregnancy. Iron-deficiency anemia occurs when the body lacks enough iron to produce hemoglobin, a substance in red blood cells that helps carry oxygen. As pregnancy progresses, the foetus requires more nutrients, including iron, to help develop its red blood cells and support its growth. Unfortunately, M’s iron stores were too low to meet these needs. With her iron levels depleted, she could not provide enough oxygen to her own tissues. This explained her pale appearance, breathlessness and fatigue. Prevalence of Iron-deficiency in Singapore Local studies have found that anaemia is seen in one in five women of reproductive age and about three-quarters of pregnant mums suffer from iron deficiency. Importance of iron during pregnancy Iron is crucial during pregnancy for the following reasons, as it supports both the health of the mother and the developing baby: 1. Formation of Hemoglobin Iron is essential for making hemoglobin, the protein in red blood cells that carries oxygen to tissues. During pregnancy, a woman’s blood volume increases, requiring more hemoglobin to support both the mother and the growing baby. 2. Prevention of Anemia Severe anemia during pregnancy is associated with preterm delivery, low birth weight, and increased risk of maternal death. 3. Fetal Development Iron is important for the baby’s brain development. It supports the growth of the fetal brain and nervous system, and a deficiency in iron can lead to cognitive and developmental issues later in life. 4. Immune Function Iron also plays a role in the immune system. Adequate iron levels help maintain the mother's immune function, which is critical during pregnancy when her immune system is slightly suppressed to accommodate the growing fetus. 5. Placental and Fetal Growth Iron contributes to the proper formation of the placenta and supports the growth of the fetus. Low iron levels can impair placental function, which can affect the delivery of nutrients and oxygen to the baby. 6. Increased Energy Levels Adequate iron intake helps pregnant women maintain energy levels by supporting their body's ability to carry oxygen efficiently to muscles and tissues. 7. Compensating for Blood Loss During Delivery Labor and delivery can result in significant blood loss, which depletes the body’s iron stores. Iron helps in the replenishment of hemoglobin levels and healing after childbirth. Iron helps prevent postpartum fatigue and weakness. 8. Supporting Milk Production Iron is essential for the production of breast milk. Adequate iron levels ensure that the baby receives iron through breast milk, supporting its growth and development. Recommended Iron Dosage During Pregnancy : 27 mg per day  is the recommended daily intake of iron for pregnant women. Diagnosis of iron-deficiency anemia Common symptoms of iron deficiency anemia, which include: Fatigue or weakness Dizziness or lightheadedness Shortness of breath Pale skin, especially noticeable in the face or hands Rapid or irregular heartbeat Cold hands and feet Headaches Brittle nails or hair loss Laboratory Tests include: Full   Blood Count Serum Ferritin: This test measures the amount of stored iron in the body. A low ferritin level (less than 30 ng/mL) is a strong indicator of iron deficiency. Serum Iron: Low levels suggest iron deficiency. When Should Blood Tests Be done? Pregnant women should be routinely screened for anemia during the first prenatal visit and again in the second or third trimester. Women with risk factors for anemia such as poor eating habits, frequent pregnancies, or heavy menstrual periods before pregnancy, may require more frequent testing. M was much relieved when I reassured her that with adequate and early intervention, her condition would improve. The treatment plan involved changes in her diet and the addition of iron supplements. M began eating more iron-rich foods. She also took iron pills diligently. By the time she was near her due date, her iron levels and haemoglobin had risen. She eventually gave birth to a healthy baby boy.

  • How to find 'me time' when you're a busy mum

    Being a mum can sometimes feel like you have to juggle a million things all at once. School drop-offs, work deadlines, and endless to-do lists can leave little room for yourself. But fret not! 'Me time' is not just a dream. It's completely possible. Embrace the Early Hours Whether it’s sipping coffee while the world is still asleep or enjoying a short workout, those quiet moments early in the morning can really set a positive tone for your day. It’s like discovering an extra hour, allowing you to recharge without interruptions. Set Boundaries with Family Does it feel like everyone always needs something from you? Setting boundaries can be hard, but it’s essential. Create a designated "me time" period during the week for yourself. Just like a phone needs charging to function, so do you! Utilise Down Time Life as a busy mum is filled with waiting. Whether it’s waiting for kids after extra-curricular activities, these can be great opportunities for personal time. Instead of scrolling through social media, consider reading a book, practicing mindfulness or even just enjoying a moment of peace. Delegate and Share Responsibilities Are you doing everything yourself? Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Whether it’s getting the older kids to pitch in with chores or talking to your partner about splitting tasks, sharing responsibilities is key. Picture life as a pizza — everyone gets a slice! By delegating, you free up your time, allowing you to focus on what truly matters — yourself. Prioritize Self-Care Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s necessary. Make it a priority. Schedule regular 'you time' in your calendar, just like any important appointment. Taking time to nurture yourself is vital. Think of it as watering a plant; without care, you can’t flourish. Create a Schedule Do you thrive on routines? Creating a schedule can help you map out your day, allowing for dedicated personal time. Block out moments in your day just for you. Maybe it’s a half-hour in the afternoon to take a walk or time in the evening to binge-watch your favorite show. Disconnect from Technology In our tech-savvy world, it’s easy to get lost on social media and the online world. Setting aside tech-free time is akin to giving your mind a mini-vacation — it can be refreshing and rejuvenating. Finally, remember that 'me time' is not just a luxury; it’s a necessity for leading a balanced life. So go ahead, make yourself a priority and watch how your days are transformed with greater positivity.

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